My Facebook says that I have not penned down anything for a quite a long time from now, so I thought to pen down few of my experiences which I started facing rather experiencing ever since I have started using FaceBook, So I would like to name this piece of my writing as The FaceBook Story.
Yes, when I was in Delhi and even more in US, I met with so many people who are struggling hard to survive and sustain the Life Journey, however the small moment of Happiness whenever they are capturing may be it with a Camera or be it a easy going mobiles they are afraid to upload on Social Media sites, it’s not that someone is sitting somewhere in the other part of the world to HiJack their snaps but they are in that fear that their near and dear ones may not become judgmental and think that there they are very happy in that part of the life :maybe it in a Metro city or in the US or any named Country: which may not be the real reality as such, and then a different awkwardness in the feeling of the relationship arises which can be very clearly felt and experienced in the pattern of communication that develops within from there.
I know one of my very close friend after a small trip said that please upload the pics but do not TAG me.
OR
I have seen people saying “are wo to aish kar raha hai wahan ; Dekha nahi photo FB pe “
many more….
Why do we become so judgmental seeing just a glimpse of something when we do not know the whole movie, and thereby fill our mind with pre-concieved notions which at times is the real culprit of spoiling many relationship.
Few Questions rise in my Mind:
What if somebody might have cried a lot and then tried hard to put a smile on the face to look good and pep up ownself to again get ready to be steady in his/her????
What if somebody might have lost someone very dear, and then might have thought that now its high time to get going and put a smile on the face and wearing the most vibrant colour to boost ownself to stand tall in this pre-conceived world.
What if the person ;(whom we see in the Facebook and start writing story); might have got the worst NEWS of his Health on that particular day from his Physician or Doctor and to live life to the fullest whatever days left with; wanted to do the craziest thing of life and be happy
I mean how do we know what people are going through.!!!!!
If such doubts ever start growing between relationships it’s better to go for an open communication pattern with clarity so that relationship does not suffer. I believe wherever there is a Fear Relationship Suffers.
To get the most of out any Relationship it has to be nurtured with Trust, Love, Faith and the most imp ingredient is an Open Communication.
This piece of writing is dedicated to those people whom I have been knowing for quite long time and is facing this Life Situations and also to the unknown who might be going through this situation in their life as well.
